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My freakin father...
09.22.02, 21:04:07
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| My dad...always saying he is right. No matter what i say to him...he seems to hate me. Of course i try to be good and such...but one day as usual...he was talking and sayin how right he was and sort...i got pissed...i yelled at him and said really bad things...of course i couldnt say i regretted it. He always says things that i am the best and crap like that. And when i said what he was saying is offending me he just says that i do not have ground to prove that he is a bad person by doin that whereas he is saying this crap that isnt even true about me with no ground. I told him honestly about how i feel and he just told me to shut up or he will throw me out...u can guess how mad i am about this. But he doesnt care really. As once he said "I DONT CARE" right in my face. What should i do now? I am greatly disturbed. I try to be normal but i just cant, i am mad, i really try not to, he supposely gave me life. This is happened for a great number of years. I am 16. |
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I'm not sure what to offer Lionx besides my sympathy. Most people will tell you your father is right, hes old, bla listen to him, but they don't know and either do I. Looking around at people my age, you figuere they all are going to have children who says they wont be jackasses then? Because they are a father they are right?
Really there is no winning Lionx it seems, just remember, never take the easy way out. |
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Really there is no winning Lionx it seems, just remember, never take the easy way out.
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When did i do that? I took time to talk to him and all and he still doesnt listen.
U cant believe it, i am doin HW and all of a sudden he talks to my bro who just happens to be near and says to grow up never to be like him. |
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I can believe it, my dad used to be like that, he still is but me and him get along better. I Swear though, some of you have psycho parents, if you had parents who cared about you they wouldn't even think about throwing you out. my dad has thrown things at me, hit me, screamed at me. but that was years ago, you wouldn't believe how much mine and his relationship has begun to work out. dunno how it happened, I just stood my ground in every heated arguement and got in his face just as much as mine.
just hold your ground, don't run away from it whatever you do |
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| you know lionx, I`m going through a similar thing right now with my entire family and I WAS kicked out but now I`m back home. All I can tell you is dude you are going to have to face an incredibly hard decision in the near future, it`s not my place to tell you what it entales but it is going to be one of the hardest choices in your life so far. |
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| I used to think what you think lionX.....until my dad developed colon cancer.....i have a newfound aprreciantion for him..seeing as he can die verysoon......Just remember your famlily members are precious.. |
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| Comunication, now, I don't know if it will work, but you obviously have a lot of issues to discuss and I think it'd be better if you sit him down and talk to him instead of yelling, otherwise nothing will be solved. |
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Comunication, now, I don't know if it will work, but you obviously have a lot of issues to discuss and I think it'd be better if you sit him down and talk to him instead of yelling, otherwise nothing will be solved.
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Lets just say i did that b4 and never yelled until he pissed me off first by yelling and saying that i should get the **** off his face. So what did u guys do i didnt do...i am getting really pissed and want to avoid him.... |
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| Do you have any escape? liscense, friends, fun? |
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