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[p] help me please...
09.22.02, 15:13:53
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I have become, in the last week, love's *****.
Ok, I'll start at the beginning.
my best friend Robyn (girl, let's clear this up now, I am male and my best friend is female) is away to florida today, and I'm depressed.
You've probably figured this out already, but I'm falling in love with her.
Have any of you ever fallen in love with a best friend? how did u deal with it? It's ripping me to bits and I don't know what to do. |
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Yeah I came back. Took me a while huh?
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| sit back and let fate deal with it... |
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The exact same thing happened to me Blaze. I have a best friend named Clair. I met her in 9th grade in my Drama class. At first hated each other but then we became friends, then last best friends. I never conversed with any female more then I did with her. I understood her and she understood me and eventually I fell in love with her. I asked her out three times, the first time she said she liked me but she liked my best guy friend instead, 2nd time she said she wasn't ready, 3rd time she said she was ready but left me for a freshmen and that was junior year. I'm still best friends with her though...Even though I have a gf now, a part of her still remains in my heart.
Back to the point, Blaze imo falling in love with a best friend was one of the things that changed my life, soul and personality forever. I'm not going to lie though there were sometimes when I felt torn as she rejected me but I just sucked it up and carried on. I see it as a very meaningful and important relationship. I just hope in your case that your best friend likes you as much as you like her. Tresure her Blaze...  good luck man. |
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"Some things are never left finished...other times you just gotta finish them yourself"
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thanks man, that helped me a lot. I only hope my party gets me what I want.
I'm haveing a party and she's obviously invited. maybe then we'll see what happens |
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Sure anytime  , tell me how it went down...alright? |
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Re: [p] help me please...
09.22.02, 17:50:01
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This happens a lot. Infact, in the past few weeks I have fallen in love with my best friend online...FFRs very own Rei. 
But, this has happened to me in the past before. If your attracted to her, and she likes you that much, just ask her if she feels the same way about you. If she does, you guys should be set, and going out. |
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| I've been there and done it, but we decided that we didn't want to go out with each other because we didn't want to end up ruining our friendship.... it can be a sad price you could end up paying either way. |
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Arielle
Aerith_Freak | aerithfreak | Ethereal
Former Site Manager and Forum Administrator of Final Fantasy Republic 2002-2005
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Hmmm...I sort of know what your talking about. Most of the girls within my friends group I have either went out with or am going to go out with....lol...kind of exclusive isn't it..?? Since it's college, it's constantly changing for me...but yes....I have went out with a best friend...
When we broke up, well, thats best left unsaid. We are still best friends however... |
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