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Questioning yourself
09.17.02, 14:59:34
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| Until a few days ago I was your average teenager, I had a great social life, a fantastic GF and an ok relationship with my parents and would have never questioned who I was. But things changed 3 days ago for the worst, my family had a enermous agruement in which my family and my closest friends (my sis, my cousin) turning on me and the whole lot of `em blaming me for all the problems which had occured lately and this has started a chain reaction which has caused me to lose my will to live, I`m not suicdal or anything like that, but for your whole family to turn on you like a pack of dogs and blame you for everything bad thats happened, most of which I had nothing to do with, really does wound you in a deep irrepairable way. To top all of this I was forced to move out and live with my nana, who is the only one to let me stay with her. So what I am really asking for is help on how to be able to move back home and some how show how ridculous this behaviour really is and convince that dozzy lot they were picking on the wrong guy. |
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| it's always been like this around my place, my family loves me to death, but sometimes they put everything on me. they'd never make me move out, but i'm used to see huge arguements between them, I actually consider most of them minor now cause i'm so used to it. amazingly my parents are still together, both of them has had a hard past, so of course they're gonna take it out on whoever they want. over time, I seem to be gaining the same disgusting attitude they show towards each other sometimes, and i've really never been the same. I dunno how your gonna change they're mind Neo, just wait awhile and let things blow over and hope they make up with you. course some people hold grudges for a long period of time, so it can be just about anytime. I hope that your family has the strength to get through this, good luck........ |
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| I would call them and talk to them about it. There's really nothing else you can do. My dad likes to blame everything on me, like leaving dishes around that aren't even mine, and not taking my word at all. I just sort of ignore him >_@ |
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| If I may be so bold, Neo.... What events do they blame you for? |
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Quoth Lennon Legend:
Moral of the story girls; put out.
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| Basically, everything like my brother coming out, my sis getting engaged to someone we all hate, things like that. Well to add an update today things got a hell of alot more worse than I could have ever imagined...today while I was home for lunch (from school that is) my dearest siblings paid me a visit and to say the least it ended in turmoil. My bro decided he would make his opinion known, I sat and listened, after a heated exchange of words, he thought he would play the hard man and swung at me which with me is a no-no. I retaliated and laid him out, my sis decided he would get involved and I basically snapped and took a psycho, to be a honest I can`t remember what happened after that except at one stage I had both my siblings in chokeholds and was holding them above my head, by the way my bro and sis is petit so it isn`t a hard task. So my nana has told me to go and stay with my friends and that`s what I did. This whole experience has left me totally mentally unstable and it seems there is nothing I can do to stop it. |
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| Oh man, you're like the badass with the heart of gold. |
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| Wow.... I'm sorry man.... I hope things work out for you.... If ya need anything.... let me know. |
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| I think I'd give them some time to sort things out. Don't rush them into talking about these issues. Give them space and I'm sure in due time, they will get a wake up call and want you back. Right now, you need to be strong, stay on the down low for a bit. Maybe you need to find or go to you school counslor and ask him or her for advise. Right now, there is not much that you can do to help the situation. Soon hold a family meeting with a counslor or have someone with you to insure nothing happenes to you. |
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| Im think that they don't want nothing to do with you no more..Stop felling sorry for your self..Grabs your nuts and say you don't give a F#$K.. |
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| Well took a good turn today and well it`s too long to retype but I`ve written it in my journal. |
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