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Well, some of us LIKE bein disturbed lil drama cases!
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I love this guy and hate him at the same time.
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*sigh*
Asking for help doesn't mean I'm any less of a disturbed lil drama case. Or any more, lol.
MM - Females are freakin crazy. They're worse than males, lol.
I will find someone in real life, I know. I have a boyfriend as it is...and about 5 guys I like.  But...none of them compare to Steve...
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Asking for help doesn't mean I'm any less of a disturbed lil drama case. Or any more, lol.
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No, but you did say you enjoy it, so why are you looking for change? If this whole crossfire lifestyle gives you some sort of pleasure, why do you seek resolution? Guilt? Restlessness? The threat of being discovered? Maybe for once you have some sort of sentiment for two guys you are totally ****ing over. No one wants to be second choiced, in any aspect.
It's misleading to have an online relationship, I doubt anyone acts the same on the internet as they do in real life, the same goes for over the phone in almost all cases I've known. It's not rational to declare the love for someone you have a purly non personal relationship with, while you get your kicks from some sap being torn between the two.
I know crazy girls. But then I also know girls who are, for the most part, disgusted by fast men and the wild exploits teens have become labled with. These are the people I respect. Not just because they leave their heads out of clouds, but because they're not subject to being pushed and pulled by indulging fantasies and instincts that will only bring them harm and anxiety.
My advice: lay the truth on one of these guys, wiser to be the one you actually know. If it does come down to choosing your online pen pal, at least let him know you'd like to meet before someone gets their heart torn out. |
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Brandon and Steve know about each other, actually.
Despite being young and crazy and stupid and all that ****, I do know what I'm feeling. I love Steve. Judge me for saying that if you want...but it doesn't change the way I feel. I don't know what to do about it...but oh well.
Sometimes it is nice to have someone to hold and touch and be with. That's why I'm with Brandon.
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Ok if you say you're in love with him then we can't exactly say you aren't seeing as we aren't you. But you will fall in love many times in your life, have your heart broken etc, and you would be much better off being someone who you can spend time with, introduce them to your friends, be able to go over to each other's houses and all that. But for a start, if you feel so strongly about keeping Steve, why are you with Brandon? Would you do something like that if they were both in your RL? And if not, think about what makes these relationships different and why.
I've found people here keep an awful lot of skeletons in their closet. So far I haven't met one person without a deep dark secret of their own, and yes it's the same in life but if they are too quick to open up be careful. He also sounds like he's taking this more seriously than you with all the marriage talk..... |
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Brandon and Steve know about each other, actually.
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