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I think I have an STD
08.30.02, 23:05:22
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*sigh*
I hate to post this. But I had to tell SOMEONE.
I gave head to a guy. A guy who, from everything I've ever heard about him and the girls he's went out with and everything he's told me himself, doesn't have much experience. He's still a virgin.
Ever since I gave him head, my lips have been like really chapped and rough and irritated...no matter how much chapstick I put on. I thought it'd go away, but it hasn't yet. It's starting to really bug me.
So, first of all...are there any STDs with symptoms like that? And what should I think of all this?
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Will you ever notice.
I was staring at the sky, just looking for a star
To pray on, or wish on, or something like that...
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I usually charge a bottle of Heinekan or Guiness for advice, but I'll make an exception this time.
First and foremost, I'm strongly against sexual experiances with people you aren't EXREMELY comfortable with, and have known for a LONG time. I won't go into that though, in respect for your condition. Don't be to ashamed though, most people these days are fed so many pathtic images -- trends by society per say. Moral depth in this day and age is as shallow as a well in Afghanistan.
It's natural for teenagers, especially girls, to be subjected to sexual encounters at younger ages. With the amount of people having sex with multible partners, and the lies that accumulate about sexual experiance.. STD's are multiplying in numbers by the day.
What you describe, and how you described it is quite vague.. so please, I truly suggest you go see a doctor if the problem remains this way for several more days or worsens.
Ask your parents to take you, and ask for privacy. It's a serious problem. Don't feel to bad if you do have a STD though, 1 out of 5 people in America alone has a STD.
There are a few possiblitys of what it may be.. ( It might not be ANYTHING at all! Your lips may just be fussy, but I still suggest seeing a trusted doctor.)
If it is ANYTHING, it sounds like a mild case of Herpes. Though it probaly is not, you would of developed cold sore by now most likely.
Herpes ::
Herpes simplex is a common and usually mild recurrent skin condition. It can cause "cold sores" or "fever blisters" on the mouth or face--what is called oral herpes. It can also cause similar symptoms in the genital area, which is known as genital herpes. About 50 percent to 80 percent of the adult population in the United States has oral herpes.
SYMTOMS OF HERPES ::
+ One or more sores, blisters, cuts, pimples, bumps or a rash
Itching, burning or tingling in the genital or mouth area.
+ Flu-like symptoms (headache, fever, )
A person may show symptoms within days after contracting genital herpes, or it may take weeks, months or years.
Some people may have a severe outbreak within days after contracting the virus. Some people may have a first outbreak so mild that they do not notice it. It can be difficult for people to know when and from whom they may have contracted the virus.
Syphilis::
Another common possiblity is Syphilis, it is more common if your partner is african american in decendance.
Syphilis is passed during vaginal, oral and **** sex, even if there is no sexual penetration. It is usually transmitted more by african american decendants. If your boyfriend is african american, it certainly is a possiblity. If he isn't.. it still is.
It develops in ten to 90 days after contact with the bacteria.
Usually a single, painless sore, that might look like a crater.
The sore can last from one to five weeks. It will go away by itself, but if you don't get treatment, you still have syphilis.
Closing ::
..Again, I'm only feeding you information and have no way of formally diagnoseing you to see if anything is wrong. If conditions get worse, go see a trusted doctor. |
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Last edited by Elmdor : 08.30.02 at 23:36:38.
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Thanx. 
I'm 16, so I'm really not THAT young, lol. I'm the only virgin in my group.
He's a white dude. I gave him head without using a condom or anything else, and...um...he came in my mouth.
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It's alright, sex is everywhere these days =P. The fact your older will make it much easier on you, that's good. Herpes is contracted though the skin, and not semen though.. So the fact he jizzed a fat one doesn't matter. Semen tends to carry strains of hepitieus (sp) , that has a more horrible head cold feel to it (and is much more deadly).
Next time, either use protection or get to know your partner REALLY well..
Just go to a doctor if it doesn't improve over a few days.. or you feel worse. Especially if you see a cold sore developing over your lips and tongue. |
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Originally posted by GamerGirl
I'm 16, so I'm really not THAT young, lol. I'm the only virgin in my group.
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If 16 isn't young, then what is it?  And just go get tested, so you know if you have an STD or not. |
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I'm 16, so I'm really not THAT young, lol.
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I'm 16, and I'm sure as hell not old.
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I'm the only virgin in my group.
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Is that a bad thing? |
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| I agree with Mecanon, did you feel you had something to prove? Oh well, im not going to get into that im sure you know, and it took a lotta guts to post a problem like this, hope you get better. |
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| Glad I don't ask for advise here. E_E's was sound advise, but the others seem like judgements. Watch how you treat my girl, now! |
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Quoth Lennon Legend:
Moral of the story girls; put out.
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