Final Fantasy Republic Forums  
 Home | Forums | Register | FAQ | Members List | Calendar | Search | Today's Posts | Mark Forums Read
     
    
        
     
 
Final Fantasy Republic Forums  
Username:
Password:
CAPTCHA:
  
        
Closed Thread
 
LinkBack Thread Tools Display Modes
  Omuhtuho
 
 
Omuhtuho's Avatar
John Rambo
 
Posts: 155
 
Reg: Aug 17 2002
 
ID: 1890
 
RP: 0
     
 
Default  I need advise
08.26.02, 09:18:32
  Post #1 (permalink)
 
     
i didnt lnow if this should go in Balamb garden or costa del sol, its important to me so here i go...I work with a bus girl, she is really nice and cute, we have been really good friends for a while. You see my problem is our conversations consist of "hey, whats up..."thats about it...can someone give me someadvise on what to say/do?
Send a message via AIM to Omuhtuho Send a message via Yahoo to Omuhtuho   Omuhtuho is offline
View Omuhtuhos Profile! Find more posts by Omuhtuho!  
  Naraku
 
 
Naraku's Avatar
In This Silence
 
Posts: 5,063
 
Reg: Apr 14 2002
 
ID: 539
 
RP: 750
 
World of Warcraft
Pendulum
Gladiator
The Colour of Magic
PC
     
 
Default  08.26.02, 09:20:51
  Post #2 (permalink)
 
     
Just try and force yourself to make conversation. Add things like, how have you been? Then make conversation from there, unless she is the quiet sort you will have to make the conversation yourself.

Try to get to know her more, what she likes and dislikes. That way you know what questions to ask next time.

If you need anymore help just ask.
______________________________________


Send a message via AIM to Naraku Send a message via MSN to Naraku Send a message via Yahoo to Naraku   Naraku is offline
View Narakus Profile! Find more posts by Naraku! Visit Narakus Homepage!  
  Blitzballer
 
 
Blitzballer's Avatar
Cool as Ice
 
Posts: 9,291
 
Reg: Jun 13 2002
 
ID: 1174
 
RP: 298
 
WE10, KH2, Suikoden 5
LOTR Trilogy
FHM...of course
PS2
     
 
Default  08.26.02, 11:19:16
  Post #3 (permalink)
 
     
Follow soulstones advice you cant go wrong....just dont come across as desperate or hurry through your words....who knows she may be thinking about you...also plucking up the courage to speak with you......
______________________________________




Quote:
Quoth Albel Nox:
Imho? it's emo, douche.So if you're going to call me emo do it right.not imao, ihmo, or imo, but EMO.
Send a message via AIM to Blitzballer Send a message via MSN to Blitzballer Send a message via Yahoo to Blitzballer   Blitzballer is offline
View Blitzballers Profile! Find more posts by Blitzballer! Visit Blitzballers Homepage!  
  Dreamer
 
 
Dreamer's Avatar
Posts: 1,081
 
Reg: Aug 19 2002
 
ID: 1907
 
RP: 0
 
Not got one specific
     
 
Default  08.26.02, 12:30:24
  Post #4 (permalink)
 
     
Well everytime the conversation runs dry think of something like, "What did you do at the weekend?" or something like that, just keep the conversation alive
  Dreamer is offline
View Dreamers Profile! Find more posts by Dreamer!  
  Killak
 
 
Killak's Avatar
Registered User
 
Posts: 1,967
 
Reg: Mar 09 2002
 
ID: 244
 
RP: 0
 
FFX, FFX-2, FF3, MGS, DMC and Silent Hill
Killswitch Engage, Cradle of Filth, Avril Lavigne, Gackt.
FF Advent Children, Silent Hill, LOTR Trilogy
David Eddings, Rowling, Alan Campbell.
Anything besides the bloody Saturn
     
 
Default  08.26.02, 13:15:58
  Post #5 (permalink)
 
     
Just be yourself.

Try to say stuff like "how was the job today?", or " Hey, wanna have a drink?"

Don't do what my friend did. He said "Hey, you wanna go ta my place and get down to some HOMEWORK?!"

He got a massive slap for that.
  Killak is offline
View Killaks Profile! Find more posts by Killak!  
  $aiC
 
 
$aiC's Avatar
LoSt ShaDow
 
Posts: 352
 
Reg: Aug 13 2002
 
ID: 1807
 
RP: 0
 
zelda & FF
Britney Ooooops
kenshin & bebop
kamasutra
nintende 8 bit
     
 
Default  08.26.02, 13:20:56
  Post #6 (permalink)
 
     
aiai leme give you advise to really make it work!

first off all how good you know her? got her msn? got her phone number? cause if you them its Sooooo easy getting closer to her.... trust me

if you dont and its just hey whats up then you really need to do some "serious" work first when you see her always keep your eyes right at hers. Make sure she sees that you are looking in here eyes. From this there are two options if she keeps looking at you just give her a blink if she doesnt look too much back it will be somewhat harder! When this happens you'll quickly have to start an conversation. The hey whats up is okay to start with. Im not quit sure whats the best way to begin the conversation cause im not living in your country (well ima dutchman maybe you2 but dont think so didnt took the time to check anyways). So just start off. Shell probably just respond back with something simple right? if she dont respond at all youll have to be somewhat suprised like: "hey? whats this? something wrong that you aint talking to me?". But ill just go from that she responds. Get the conversation going further with, like soulstone said , simple things. I personally are one not to go to far with that cause it somewhat makes the "conversation relation" a bit lame. Im more into "straight to the point" but that really depends on the type of girl. Is she a bit shy go with the long conversation about everything. Your week etc etc. Remember to always keep attention to what shes saying and make quick and nice responds which clearly show of you have intrest for her. Rule number one for a conversation is Always try to get a long ranche communication from her. Like msn, aol or her phone number. I advise to first start with the normal chat cause phone is really mutch more personall and if you really wanna be a sweet guy you should Always first ask for permission to start calling her.
When you meet her for the second time after you had the first conversation and you got her msn or whatever Always start with giving Three friendship kisses. On the cheeks you know right, left, right. It is probably the best way to get to see if a girl is intrested in you cause how closer the kisses come to the mouth how much she likes you more! well this bout it Ima gonna write now cause i got some other things to do its taking up to much of my time already.... i wanna call a sweet girl remembering my own rulesss :P
hehe and dont take this advise to literarry cause all girls are different find the best technique with upper things and some more....
if you want to know any more just PM me I always love giving advise bout girls!
I NEED GIRLS GIRL GIRLS, I NEED GIRLS GIRL GIRLS
remember the blink ITS A KILLER BABY
______________________________________


SeNd In YouR ReQuEst or ChEcK ThE CluB

Owner of: FFR PimP CluB | Owner of: FFR StyLisch CloThing | Member of: Teh FFR Seksiest | Member of: The Anime Lovin' Club
  $aiC is offline
View $aiCs Profile! Find more posts by $aiC! Visit $aiCs Homepage!  
  Mecanon
 
 
Mecanon's Avatar
discorporate
 
Posts: 1,435
 
Reg: Aug 19 2002
 
ID: 1900
 
RP: 0
 
Natural Selection
Neil Young
The Big Lebowski
In Search Of The Far Side
PC
     
 
Default  08.26.02, 13:23:15
  Post #7 (permalink)
 
     
These open relationship advice threads are the worst. Just look back a few posts, theres about 50 inqueries as to how to talk to girls.
______________________________________

Send a message via AIM to Mecanon Send a message via Yahoo to Mecanon   Mecanon is offline
View Mecanons Profile! Find more posts by Mecanon! Visit Mecanons Homepage!  
  $aiC
 
 
$aiC's Avatar
LoSt ShaDow
 
Posts: 352
 
Reg: Aug 13 2002
 
ID: 1807
 
RP: 0
 
zelda & FF
Britney Ooooops
kenshin & bebop
kamasutra
nintende 8 bit
     
 
Default  08.26.02, 13:24:39
  Post #8 (permalink)
 
     
ima gonna explain em all cause I LOVE GIRLS giving advise is fun
  $aiC is offline
View $aiCs Profile! Find more posts by $aiC! Visit $aiCs Homepage!  
  Omuhtuho
 
 
Omuhtuho's Avatar
John Rambo
 
Posts: 155
 
Reg: Aug 17 2002
 
ID: 1890
 
RP: 0
     
 
Default  08.26.02, 16:13:36
  Post #9 (permalink)
 
     
yea i have her AIM, i talked to her for a long time last night, but now i am out of material, i cant always use the work thing b/c we work together ussually...i talk to her online late so if your on i'll AIM i'll IM you for advise



mecannon if you dont like them dont read them...
Send a message via AIM to Omuhtuho Send a message via Yahoo to Omuhtuho   Omuhtuho is offline
View Omuhtuhos Profile! Find more posts by Omuhtuho!  
  Mecanon
 
 
Mecanon's Avatar
discorporate
 
Posts: 1,435
 
Reg: Aug 19 2002
 
ID: 1900
 
RP: 0
 
Natural Selection
Neil Young
The Big Lebowski
In Search Of The Far Side
PC
     
 
Default  08.26.02, 16:16:55
  Post #10 (permalink)