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Have any of you ever losta close friend or even a family members trust? I kinda did..
Like.. in the begining of 7th grade(i'm a freshman now), i became friends ith this one girl who was really popular.. i didn't care about that though. Well she never used to be my friend.. and people told me that she was only my friend because of my brother(the most popular guy in school or whatever).. because she was never my friend until she found out i was his younger sis.
Well we ended up getting really close, and so i didn't believe what the other people said about our friendship..
I slept over her house once and she slept over at mine a few times..well just recently i found out that what everyone was saying was right, because the first night she slept over her and my brother made out(kissed -.-"). I didn't even find out myself, this other kid told me, but when she tried to explain she started crying.. i dunno though..she lost my trust, and brother lost it as well.
I guess i brought it upon myself.. well if you haven't noticed i made this thread for peoples to write about people who did something to you to make you lose the closeness you had before. |
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| The trust of associates you hardly know is a fragile thing that is constly torn down piece by piece. People are always finding ways to make themselves fallible and problematic. I find this happens to almost everyone I don't have an "out of business/school" social life with simply over time, they prove how useless and untrustworty they are eventually. I've come to lose almost all respect in humanty outside of the handful of people I know. |
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| its hard to find trust..you must look deeply into the people you call your friends ..its hard to find ppl who are trustworthy so I would have to say "choose your friends carefully" |
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i see it as this. even thou she kinda used you, you shouldn't really lose a good friend over that. I mean she prolly did hurt you alot and all, but a good friend is truly really hard to come by these days. you should give forgive and forget. *just my opinion*
or you can see it like this, your brother has a girlfriend who he likes and you maded a great friend. |
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| Not many trustworthy people in this world, your let them in and what do they do? Use you and throw you away like yesterdays news. I have too many acquaintances... distance, i guess you could put it. |
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Originally posted by marvelous
or you can see it like this, your brother has a girlfriend who he likes and you maded a great friend.
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At the time he had a girlfriend..i don't she knew though..or even knows now. |
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| It's hard to trust, especially for me. Nowadays I don't think I really trust somebody...but that's sad for me. |
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I trust people I meet automatically. Sounds stupid and gullible right?
Well I find out if they are trustworthy alot faster or not. People assume this instant trust is ignorance with me. I am constantly underestimated by people because I am me strait off with them.
But my trust has been stomped on. I thought I had a real good mate but he stole off me. I told him to **** off.
Trust and loyalty from me are strait off the bat, but if you mess it up it would take alot longer to re-earn it than to earn with other people.
Enough about my veiws on trust. I say tell your bros girlfriend. If it goes on longer the more she'll fell it because the longer the time your bro has been lying.
Talk to the popular lady. If she wants your freindship she'll be willing to earn it back.
One other point.
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It's hard to trust, especially for me. Nowadays I don't think I really trust somebody...but that's sad for me.
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Why is that? Some people feel they have lost trust simply from being over-analytical, trying to hear more than people say either to please or displease themself. Could you elaborate?
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Not many trustworthy people in this world, your let them in and what do they do? Use you and throw you away like yesterdays news. I have too many acquaintances... distance, i guess you could put it.
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There are plenty of trustworthy people, the thing is, it has to be mutual. If there isn't a basic respect or understanding between two people, there can't be trust. The idea that you could downplay or aggrandize your own image, and have someone else have no way of credifying your claim is tempting, you try to make yourself something your not to please someone else, and when they do actually get to know you, it's hard to build trust. Maybe if people would stop telling all the meaningless lies, then we'd have a foundation for integrity. |
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Last edited by Mecanon : 12.05.02 at 22:16:29.
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Originally posted by Himiko_Fool
Not many trustworthy people in this world, your let them in and what do they do? Use you and throw you away like yesterdays news. I have too many acquaintances... distance, i guess you could put it.
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Lol, that kinda reminds me of my family.. i don't talk with them as much as i used too.. i concider my friends my family because my family doesn't seem to trust me for some reason, so being around them makes me feel the same, but even more uncomfortable.
Well i don't talk to that one chick anymore..she goes to another school.. it's really close to mine and i see her everyday, but she seems to avoid me now.. -.-" oh well though, it doesn't bug me as much as before anyways^^" |
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